
As a Kink Educator, Coach, and Consultant I have a variety of offerings:
Are you a Sex Educator or Therapist looking to further your understanding of BDSM? An author or film-maker wanting to add elements of Kink to your storytelling in a way that is safe and respectful? Curious about incorporating new dynamics into your romantic relationship? Consider a session of Kink Consulting!
Educational Workshops and Lectures
My classes and presentations cover a variety of topics from practical application (BDSM skill sets and safety) to theory (Kink history and culture) and the personal (communication skills and consent). Most programs are (or can be made) appropriate for a general adult audience such a colleges and universities, adult stores, and conferences.
Alternative Relationship Coaching
Ready to take your relationship to another level by adding new elements such as Dom/sub or Master/slave dynamics? I can offer guidance as you build this new paradigm around your love with healthy boundaries, open communication, roles and rituals. I’m also an ordained Pagan Minister available for Weddings and Hand-fastings.
Live Demonstrations and Tastings
How do you use a flogger? Can you really mummify someone? What does THAT feel like? Demos and kink tastings are a great way to bring folks together to introduce basic BDSM concepts and even give them a chance to try something new.
Peer Support
Whether you’re just beginning of your Kink journey, or you’re a seasoned traveller at a fork in the road, I am happy to offer a safe container of judgement-free listening and individual support to help you explore and express.
I have a deep passion for sharing knowledge and uplifting our community and this is reflected in my consultation rates, which are on a sliding scale. Please message me for further details.
Connect with me about consulting
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“Mx Kitty is a kink angel! She crafted a Basics of Impact Play for my partner and I, adapting it to our precise desires, skill levels, and relational dynamics. She welcomed us to a beautiful, sunlit, well-appointed BDSM studio in Lakewood where we experimented with paddles and floggers and bare hands (oh my!). She was so warm, kind and approachable as well as provocative and edgey – embodying both a softness and an inspiring dominant power. We truly felt cared for in our lesson and left singing her praises. My partner and I tip our hats and floggers to Mx Kitty. Five enthusiastic deliciously stinging lashes 🏓🏓🏓🏓🏓! Book some time with her, you’ll love it!”

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